You won’t be able to keep your hands off each other.
Being in a healthy long-term relationship is wonderful. It means you always have someone there for you — to be your best friend, your shoulder to cry on and permanent dinner date. Best of all? You always have someone to have sex with.
The one drawback to sleeping with the same person over and over and over again is that it’s easy to get stuck in a routine. Luckily, there are tons of ways to change it up, without going too far outside of your comfort zone. From new positions to new places, sex never has to get boring. One way to shake it up a bit? Role play.
Taking on a new identity in the bedroom might sound a little daunting at first, but it’s fun — promise!
Here are 30 role play ideas to get you started.
1. The Repairman
You’ve got a leak to fix and your partner’s the only one who’s got the right wrench. (OK, OK, I can hear the eye rolls — but this one is surprisingly fun and simple for beginners!)
For anybody who had a little teacher fetish in their early twenties, this role playing situation is more fun than cliche.
Pick your favorite sexy song, slide on some lacy lingerie, then sway your hips and let yourself give the perfect lap dance.
4. Porn Star
Pick a porn you both like and reenact it together.
5. On-Camera Porn Stars
Kick the previous idea up a notch and actually film yourselves having sex. Not only will it turn you both on, it will ensure you two will be at the top of your game.
6. Cheerleader/Football Player
If you’re already trying out the porn star thing, you might as well try a role playing situation familiar to it!
7. Strangers At A Bar
Arrive separately to the same bar, flirt a little bit with other people, then eventually go and talk to one another like you’re strangers. This will get the feelings flowing as you start to remember exactly what drew you to each other in the first place.
Do a bit of playful spanking and some light hair-pulling to determine if you want to go further.
9. …Then Switch!
One of the best things about having sex with somebody you love is that you two can explore your options together. Of course, if one isn’t comfortable with a specific role, then certainly don’t push yourselves into it, but if you are feeling flexible, changing it up could be fun.
Is your partner usually on top? Then this time, you take over the upper role and dictate the conversation your bodies are having.
11. Your Favorite Movie
Regardless of what it is, if you two have a sex scene or film you find particularly entrancing, act it out with one another and see how it feels.
If one of you is particularly good at singing, you could try doing a little private performance featuring a seductive song. For example, nobody could resist the charms of Portishead’s “Glory Box” no matter how hard they try.
It is a well-known fact that everyone who has ever worked for every fire department ever has been unreasonably hot.
Have one of you lie down and the other do whatever he or she wants — kissing, licking, even light tickling — until the person lying on the bed is begging for more.
15. Client/Call Girl
Let your partner list exactly what he or she wants as you act like like a call girl who’s there to cater to their every need.
16. Hollywood Starlet
You play the sexy star and your partner can be your secret admirer. Do your hair, do your makeup, put yourself in a fancy gown and let your inner diva nature go wild.
17. Chef And Server
Don’t make just any dishes — only make foods you can feed to your partner by hand.
Snag some sexy massage oil, light a few candles and give one another massages until you’re both feeling smooth, silky and ready to be touched further.
Watch your partner masturbate for an extended period of time to increase tension and enjoy the view.
Speaking of enjoying the view, if you two are into the idea of being watched, imagine you have a little audience made up of people you both find hot.
Give each other baths slowly and sexily among bubbles, essential oils and delicious body washes.
22. Your Favorite On-Air Duo
23. Royalty And Servant
Have your partner bring you wine, feed you grapes, rub your feet, and just do all the general things we see in depictions of Renaissance royals and their servants.
24. Painter And Muse
If one of you is artistically inclined, break out the easel and brushes, then have one pose naked as the other immortalizes them on canvas.
25. Doctor And Nurse
Cliche? Yes. Fun? Also yes.
26. Dance Teacher And Student
Take a few private lessons to prep for this one, then enact a scenario in which you are a student and your partner is the instructor (or vice versa) and seduce one another through the art of movement.
27. Innocent Versus… Well, Not-So-Innocent
One of you can pretend to be a bit naive, while the other takes control and “teaches” the first all about sex.
28. Mile-High Clubbers
Having sex on an actual airplane can get you in a lot of trouble, but making out and eventually sneaking into your own small bathroom can feel nearly as exciting.
Ever seen Secretary?
30. Hotel Maid And Guest
Slip into a sexy maid costume and after one knock on the door from “housekeeping” things will heat up in no time.